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Sunday, August 11, 2013

How to start a conversation with a Girl!





Hey guys so this is my second topic I will be covering which is "How to start a conversation with a girl". If you haven't seen my past topic which was "How to be confident around girls" then go do that first so you can follow this one because this one is kind of a sequel to that! Great, so you approached the girl with all your confidence & are looking at her & thinking "wtf do I do now?" Yeah I know every guy has gone threw this moment & today I will tell you what to say. Firstly do not & I mean strictly DO NOT start off with a pickup line! One of the reasons is because she will not take you seriously & just walk away laughing. So some guys in this situation get scared or chocked up & say some of the randomness thing & just try to get away from the situation which is a big red flag to girls because they know you're not confident! Great thing about girls is that they can sniff unconfident men miles away & you are standing right by her so she definitely knows you're unconfident & don't know what to do. So most of the guys will just say stuff like "umm did we have English homework?" Or "umm what time is it?" Or "umm can I borrow a pencil?" Now girls are not dumb they know you're unconfident & don't know how to start a conversation. My suggestion is not putting a lot of stress I to what you're going to say but just go with the flow. What I suggest is just start off with a "hey" or "how's it going?" It shows that you can actually start a conversation & not just stare at her & lust over her! Great so you've now started the conversation but now what do you talk about? The weather? Nah too boring. School? You're trying to flirt with her not be her school buddy. Compliment her? Yes! But not get too carried away & just start complimenting her & not let her talk. Say something along the lines of "your hair looks nice" or "you look nice". Shows her you're trying to flirt with her & this is not a regular conversation about school(most guys think talking about school will be a good start but it's a good start to heading into the "FRIENDZONE"). Now while you're talking try having a bit of eye contact & not just look around. Try talking to her through your eyes but now like stare her down! No! Just a little bit of it when she is talking or telling a story. Also don't look down it shows that you aren't confident & are not making eye contact. Okay so now you've been talking for a while & now you ask yourself if I should go for the number. Most of the time guys say "hmm I will ask her next time" because they think they will get rejected & never talk to her again. Look guys if she is having fun in the conversation & actually talking back & forth then she definitely likes talking to you! Now you have to have the balls & ask for her number! This isn't a movie you have to go ask her for number it's not like she will be like "oh here is my number" I wish it was this easy. Now you're thinking when to ask for her number? There isn't a fixed time you can ask 5 minutes into the conversation or even at the end. The way to ask is being not to needy but just acting chill. Great so you got her number now & are like "hmm should I wait 3 days?" No! Don't be a dumbass just text her like that evening or something. Now I will tell you guys about "How to have the texting game with girls" in the next post! Thank you for reading & go talk to those beautiful creature called girls! Also check out my twitter,Instagram & my YouTube! Links below! Thank you & have a nice day! 

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